有自閉症的客人 - 奧客
By Frederic
at 2007-04-01T00:43
at 2007-04-01T00:43
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我真的很明白原PO說的感受!!!
我們店裡遇到的是正好相反的狀況....「過動兒」
很慚愧,一開始我也像原PO一樣,以為遇到小奧客,
因為我從沒遇過這樣的人和情況。
那孩子每次和媽媽來店裡,
打從進門就開始將我們的店門、玻璃門全關起來,不讓其他客人進出,
我們過去打開,他就再去關起來,重複沒完沒了。
甚至一個服務人員去擋著他都沒用,
他使出蠻力硬是要關,外加哭鬧...真的會讓人很生氣!
沒玩關門遊戲就是把店裡的東西大搬家,
一堆物品被換位子或藏起來,
或是把液狀食品擠出來!
每次他走後我們都要花很多時間力氣整理...
有時會很生氣現在的父母到底怎麼教小孩的,
可是奇怪的是他的媽媽卻是脾氣很好、輕聲細語的好客人,
雖然不常帶小孩來,但是每次來她也拼命溫柔的阻止小孩,
看的出來她很努力也很尷尬,並不是在放縱小孩。
老實說我們真的有點一頭霧水,
雖然會很生氣,隱約感覺的出來小孩頑皮的很誇張,
但也不好意思多問,那媽媽除了一直道歉也不曾解釋。
直到一次,另一位有經驗的客人看到了才私底下告訴我們,
我們才恍然大悟,原來他是過動兒!!
那種"明白"的感覺真的太重要了,
因為當我們被莫名奇妙的對待,心中真的又委屈又不平,
明知道自己氣到內傷也沒用,卻就是一股氣悶在胸口好鬱卒!
一旦了解原因之後,那種突然間的心境轉變...真的很難形容!
是一種釋懷吧~
當不能理解的時候,很難產生「同理心」
於是會讓自己被表面上的惡意折磨著,
尤其服務業待久了,有時真的會漸漸的在面對人時越來越麻痺。
但是另一方面來說,反而會有自我修練的機會,
好像會越來越懂得體諒吧~
聽那個當老師的客人說,現在學校越來越常看到這樣的孩子,
有的自閉、有的過動、有的智能遲緩,
他們的父母家人要面對的是令人難以想像的辛酸和煎熬,
比起來,只不過偶爾被一些正港奧客虐待的人生好像也算是幸福的吧~^_^"
奧客退散!!!......(#‵′)凸
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我真的很明白原PO說的感受!!!
我們店裡遇到的是正好相反的狀況....「過動兒」
很慚愧,一開始我也像原PO一樣,以為遇到小奧客,
因為我從沒遇過這樣的人和情況。
那孩子每次和媽媽來店裡,
打從進門就開始將我們的店門、玻璃門全關起來,不讓其他客人進出,
我們過去打開,他就再去關起來,重複沒完沒了。
甚至一個服務人員去擋著他都沒用,
他使出蠻力硬是要關,外加哭鬧...真的會讓人很生氣!
沒玩關門遊戲就是把店裡的東西大搬家,
一堆物品被換位子或藏起來,
或是把液狀食品擠出來!
每次他走後我們都要花很多時間力氣整理...
有時會很生氣現在的父母到底怎麼教小孩的,
可是奇怪的是他的媽媽卻是脾氣很好、輕聲細語的好客人,
雖然不常帶小孩來,但是每次來她也拼命溫柔的阻止小孩,
看的出來她很努力也很尷尬,並不是在放縱小孩。
老實說我們真的有點一頭霧水,
雖然會很生氣,隱約感覺的出來小孩頑皮的很誇張,
但也不好意思多問,那媽媽除了一直道歉也不曾解釋。
直到一次,另一位有經驗的客人看到了才私底下告訴我們,
我們才恍然大悟,原來他是過動兒!!
那種"明白"的感覺真的太重要了,
因為當我們被莫名奇妙的對待,心中真的又委屈又不平,
明知道自己氣到內傷也沒用,卻就是一股氣悶在胸口好鬱卒!
一旦了解原因之後,那種突然間的心境轉變...真的很難形容!
是一種釋懷吧~
當不能理解的時候,很難產生「同理心」
於是會讓自己被表面上的惡意折磨著,
尤其服務業待久了,有時真的會漸漸的在面對人時越來越麻痺。
但是另一方面來說,反而會有自我修練的機會,
好像會越來越懂得體諒吧~
聽那個當老師的客人說,現在學校越來越常看到這樣的孩子,
有的自閉、有的過動、有的智能遲緩,
他們的父母家人要面對的是令人難以想像的辛酸和煎熬,
比起來,只不過偶爾被一些正港奧客虐待的人生好像也算是幸福的吧~^_^"
奧客退散!!!......(#‵′)凸
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